December 19, 2012
Speak Respectfully Listen Carefully Just Say It Remember Your Values In the interest-based model of mediation the concepts of who is right and what is...
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April 10, 2012
It’s not uncommon at the beginning of a mediation process for people to choose as one of their process rules, “No substantive emails.” When I...
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October 19, 2011
When people call my office for a free 15-minute phone consultation, they commonly ask, “Are we good candidates for mediation?” And often my response is:...
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June 26, 2011
Since my last post, dated April 23rd, I’ve had some time to ponder the feedback I’ve gotten about my “happiest” clients who didn’t engage my...
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April 02, 2011
In the past couple of years, the term Consensual Dispute Resolution has developed in the legal community as a way of differentiating certain legal services...
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February 14, 2011
One of the benefits of working out your divorce or probate matter in a non-adversarial process like mediation or Collaborative Practice is that the people...
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January 25, 2011
When we find ourselves in a dispute with our spouse, or sibling, or anyone else, we often want to talk to a lawyer to find...
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October 11, 2010
Some people think that mediators, as fonts of sage notions of compromise, virtue, and peace, walk around following their own advice all the time. My...
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May 28, 2010
Recently I had two sessions in a matter of days where one person during each session said basically the same thing to me, “We’re not...
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April 28, 2010
The role of the law in mediation and Collaborative Practice is a frequent discussion among divorce professionals, and I had the pleasure of addressing this...
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